There’s a feeling that no man in the world can deny. And that feeling is the feeling of rejection. Nothing is worse than when you step up to a girl and ask her and ask her for her number or ask her out on a date and she rejects your request. She either says no or gives you some super lame excuse like she has a boyfriend or she’s too busy with something else. Instead of feeling bitter, here’s how you deal with rejection.
Sometimes when a woman rejects you, it might be subtitled for try harder. For some odd reason women loved to be chased. So you will have to show persistence. So think of it as breaking through her Shielded Mental Fortress. So when she says she has a boyfriend, turn back around and tell her, “Well don’t to tell him,” or, “Well do you love him…..Of course you don’t. Stop messing around.” She wants a man that’s strong so she will submit to you only if you are mentally strong enough to handle her. Just be sure not to do anything to degrade yourself. That will not put you in good place. She’ll just be using you from that point on. You can get the moon for her, but don’t go to Pluto just for her affection. That’s way too far. You know what I mean?
Now let’s say you’ve tried everything in the book and she’s still not biting. Take a moment and ask yourself, is she really worth it? Do you really see yourself waking up next to her? Or are you just drunk right now and just thinking with your little soldier? Most likely the answer will be no she’s not. So just shrug it off and move on to the next one. She’s just going to have to miss out on what you have to offer. If you are just a lonely guy who’s feeling like he’s missing out on love, then the same rules still apply. It’s still not worth it. Don’t get desperate and sell your soul just for some quality time. Just be patient and your lady will come along. We need to stop taking these rejections as knives to the chest. There’s no need to put pride to the side because it shouldn’t even be out there in the first place. So what’s the worst she can say? No? C’mon son, you’ve been told no all of your life. One more is not going to kill you.
Whenever we get rejected, we always tend to think that maybe something we did was wrong.
“Was it my breath?” “Was it something I said?”
We never tend to think that maybe something was wrong with them. Women are intimidated by men as we are to them. Maybe that one girl that you asked to dance was scared because she knew that she couldn’t dance. Or maybe your electrifying presence made her tense up. There could be many reasons why she rejected you. And surprisingly enough it might’ve not even been you. So don’t let rejections slow you down. Keep on pushing because you will regret it if you don’t.